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The new 'in' crowd

By: Susan Watters
January 4, 2009

For eight years, the president of the United States — the ex-officio socialite in chief — has turned up his nose at the slightest whiff of social aspiration. Now a new generation of Washington socialites has a dream. They see a dashing, young, brilliant president and his equally brilliant wife ushering in an era of inclusive entertaining. Gone is the white-gloved, debutante-loving, Pilgrim-pedigreed culture that still mattered in Kennedy’s Camelot and Reagan’s Hollywood East. Starting Jan. 20, when President Barack Obama and Michelle move into the White House, the “in crowd” will include just about everyone who, since the dawn of the new millennium, has ever felt left out for coveting an invitation to the White House.

Just listen to Ken Duberstein, Ronald Reagan’s last chief of staff, who switched his support from John McCain to Barack Obama just 10 days before the election. “It will be a more open White House, not just morning and afternoon but also in the evening,” he says. “The White House will once again become a prime invitation. The outreach will be remarkable. You’ll see a renaissance of people coming back to the White House, even with a difficult economy, because people want our president to shine.”

Standing at the hub of all that pent-up desire is Desiree Rogers, the president-elect’s cool, sophisticated, unflappable, future White House social secretary, a job she intends to expand to include the 10 million members of Obama’s powerful Internet community. Armed with her Harvard Business School degree, and her considerable business experience, most recently creating an Internet community as president for social networking for Allstate Financial in Chicago, Rogers is thinking about ways to recast the definition of what it means to belong to a social A List.

“We will keep the historical calendar of events, and then layer on top of those the events the president-elect and first lady want to host. There will be state dinners. I am sure there will be. How many, I don’t know,” says Rogers, 49, who is about to become the country’s first African-American social secretary. One of her ideas is to find a way to use the Internet to create special events that reach out to “the whole community we’ve set up on the Internet. Not everyone can get to the White House, so we want to find a way for them to participate through the technology we have today.”

“There is so much momentum and enthusiasm. How do we continue that enthusiasm and convert it in a way that helps to push this nation forward? How do we take that push for winning and say, ‘OK, now we have to fight for ourselves and our nation,’ ” she asks. “I’m very focused on creating environments where people feel comfortable to talk. Not everyone feels comfortable in a social setting. Sometimes, all you have to do is hook them up with someone else who is.”

Rogers isn’t the only one of Barack Obama’s longtime Chicago pals interested in harnessing the power of White House entertaining.

“The White House can play this incredible role helping people work on serious issues,” says Penny Pritzker, a leading Chicago businesswoman, heir to the Hyatt hotel fortune, finance chairwoman of the Obama presidential campaign, and co-chairwoman with John Rogers, Desiree Rogers’ ex-husband, of the inauguration. “You want to bring people together who have different points of view. At the conference table, people work to solve policy problems facing our country. Around the dinner table, they are appreciating the humanity of everyone in the room.”

Marty Nesbitt, a longtime friend and founder of the Parking Spot, a national chain of airport parking facilities, is also sure the new first couple will want to take part in the Washington community, especially at the Sidwell Friends School where their daughters are scheduled to start classes tomorrow. “I’m sure they’ll be at soccer games, all kinds of family activities,” says Nesbitt, who intends to stay in touch with the new first family. “I am sure I will at least visit,” says Nesbitt, who describes the president as “an ordinary guy with extraordinary talent, a guy who likes to talk about college football, basketball, baseball, golf, and having fun with his kids. I see him all the time, every Sunday, at my house, or at his house.”

Valerie Jarrett who, along with Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel, landed the top White House job of all the Chicago pals, has also done her part to help forge alliances with the local social establishment, lending an aura of heightened cachet to her cousin Ann Jordan. Former Hillary Clinton friends and presidential campaign backers, Ann and Vernon Jordan are now seen as potential future hosts of the Obamas ever since Jarrett asked to stay with them while she looked for permanent digs in Washington.

People who early on establish themselves as favored by the incoming president and first lady often set the tone for Washington society in a new administration. President Kennedy and his wife, Jackie, created an overnight sensation by stopping at the home of Joseph Alsop and his wife, Susan Mary, after attending five inaugural balls. In an instant, the Alsops, along with Joseph’s brother Stewart, climbed to the top of the social ladder, and a whole generation of Georgetown socialites was born.

Desiree Rogers made her leap even earlier, just weeks after the election when she gave a birthday party for her good friend Jarrett, the senior White House adviser who recruited Michelle Obama to work for Chicago Mayor Richard Daley in the early nineties. Both Barack and Michelle Obama dropped by to say hello, and, overnight, everyone was talking about Rogers’ Gold Coast apartment on Astor Street in Chicago, which, incidentally, she says she has no intention of giving up.

Rogers’ desire to broaden the social firmament is unlikely to cause any grousing from Obama’s top fundraisers, many of whom say they learned early in the campaign to step aside for the grassroots supporters who donated money through the Internet. Megan Beyer, one of the president-elect’s earliest Washington supporters and whose husband is a former Virginia lieutenant governor, recalls that during the campaign candidate Obama “came right out and said how things can get awfully competitive and how wives of people who raise money for presidential campaigns needed to understand there was no big pecking order. There were some people who were used to being catered to, but because of all the Internet money and the big grassroots support, any swaggering you might have been tempted to do was really not appropriate.”

One group of insiders who can still lay claim to VIP treatment is the Kennedys. Beyer campaigned with Ethel Kennedy in Southwest Virginia, a trip that evoked the memory of her late husband Robert Kennedy’s 1968 Poverty Tour through West Virginia. “Obama was so grateful,” Beyer recalls. “He was flying into Dulles at the same time we did. He made certain that Ethel came to see him on the plane before he went on to a huge rally in Leesburg [Virginia, two weeks before the national election]. He’s good at these grace notes.”

Beyer also points to another Kennedy family friend, George Stevens Jr., founder of the American Film Institute who hosted many Georgetown parties attended by then-President Bill Clinton. Stevens insists he would “not presume” to guess whether the Obamas will come to his house for dinner. But he is “confident that the Obamas will put their stamp on the White House in their own way just as effectively as the Kennedys did. There’s a buoyancy in this town that I have not felt for a decade. The president and Michelle Obama will have an effect on our culture. And what they do in the White House culturally will have ripples throughout the whole country.”

Exactly how far the new first couple can go in changing Washington society is still anyone’s guess.

“The only societies ever to be classified as classless are communist and that didn’t work for long,” says Adele Alexander, an assistant professor at George Washington University whose husband, Clifford Alexander, served as the first African-American secretary of the Army under Jimmy Carter. Their daughter, Elizabeth Alexander, the Yale University professor of English and African American studies, has been friends with the Obamas since the early nineties when she and Barack Obama both taught at the University of Chicago. She accompanied Michelle Obama on the campaign trail. The president-elect commissioned her to compose and read a poem at his swearing-in ceremony.

“There are so many inner and outer circles of power, and so many protocol demands,” says Adele Alexander. “How you do a state dinner? Officially, whom do you invite and who invites you? But do I think this will be remarkably egalitarian, remarkably more diverse than anything I’ve ever seen in this city? Yes. I just can’t see how it won’t be different.”


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PhonyBama

Jan 5, 2009

Just what we need more bling while the average Joe tries to put food on the table, Obama was in an 8 million dollar home....

 

KansasGirl

Jan 5, 2009

And they will turn water into wine.

 

Mr Gordon

Jan 5, 2009

One of the most pitiful excuses for "journalism" I have seen in my 58 yrs. This writer would best be described as a 'fluffer' in another industry.

 

realityluver

Jan 5, 2009

The writer claims how much a smarty pants the Sen. Obama is, as do the rest of the flavor aid drinkers in the MSM. Just what evidence are they going on? His mediocre grades at Occidental? His brilliant grades at Harvard? Ooops. He won't release those fantastic grades, so one must wonder. Oh, the delusional will run to his fab books...that Ayers ghost wrote. The Obama pair are examples of affirmative action at it's worst.

 

realityluver

Jan 5, 2009

The writer claims how much a smarty pants the Sen. Obama is, as do the rest of the flavor aid drinkers in the MSM. Just what evidence are they going on? His mediocre grades at Occidental? His brilliant grades at Harvard? Ooops. He won't release those fantastic grades, so one must wonder. Oh, the delusional will run to his fab books...that Ayers ghost wrote. The Obama pair are examples of affirmative action at it's worst.

 

Beverlee Bruce, PhD

Jan 5, 2009

The new first couple and their darling daughters are brilliant, smart, charismatic and inclusive. The Washington Social Scene will be taken to another level but so will the sense of service to others less fortunate. And given the legacy of the Bush administration that is 99% of us. So thank God we will have some sparkle to get us through the dreary days ahead.

 

Jan 7, 2009

what a stupid article. People are so dumb to fall for this guy. I'm sick of all these articles that make O'Bama out to be some sort of God. Wake up people. As this guy smiles for the camera in his freshly pressed high dollar suit he'll sign a bill that will make it a right to murder unborn babies for whatever reason. Are we supposed to care what the president and his wife are wearing and all their "socialite" friends when they are murderers? But I guess that's what happens when so many Americans think abortion is fine. They vote for guys like O'Bama. Later on they are shocked when a scandal surfaces - a scandal that is less serious than murdering children. The real reason Bush was attacked was not because of the war or because of the economy. It was because he was prolife.

 

owlgore

Jan 16, 2009

I have just about had it with the media fawning all over this guy. I'd rather have a root canal then have to spend an evening with the cool insiders of the Beltway, how boring a life they must all have to be excited about Camelot returning.....geez

 

Really?

Jan 24, 2009

A HBS degree and she's the social secretary?

 

Obama Brings Welcome Change - Don't Forget the Cult of Reagan Worship

Jan 25, 2009

Obama will usher in welcome change from the stale politics and stale personality of George Bush. But don't be mistaken. Nothing compares to the Cult of Reagan Worship that has never ended -- the fawning media, the rolling over to push Reagan's big-government, big deficit agenda. People who complain about people's admiration for Obama either don't remember the Reagan Worship or they're part of the Cult themselves.

 

Widget

Jan 25, 2009

I am sure that those who have lost their jobs and those whose jobs are imperiled will be thrilled to see the Obamas romping in the White House. The interior designer whom they have chosen to redo the personal quarters is the same fellow with whom John Thain spent $1.22 million on just his office suite. How much does one suppose the taxpayer will be picking up on the Obama's job; everything left over after George Soros?

 


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