Major media outlets are certain that the bitter 2016 presidential election will ruin everyone’s Thanksgiving dinner, and have published lengthy guides aimed at helping people get through the holiday without open fights between friends and relatives.
Over the weekend, the New York Times published a column called, “How Could You? 19 Questions to Ask Loved Ones Who Voted the Other Way.”
That article didn’t blame Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton for ruining the holiday, but instructed people to reset their relationships by asking and answering 19 questions. For example, people are supposed to consider who they voted for, why someone else might have voted differently, and whether it’s been difficult to talk to others about this.
“Do you think I’m sexist or racist?” is another question. “Is there anything you are hopeful about in a Trump presidency?” is another.
The last question on the list is, “Do you still like me?”
CNN published a similar article called, “How to talk politics at your family Thanksgiving meal this year.” Among other things, that story told people to “stick to nonthreatening conversations,” and not to “take the bait” if someone is spoiling for an argument.
“Admit when you’ve put your foot in your mouth,” is another piece of advice from CNN, along with, “If you must bring up a tough subject, do so with compassion.”
Esquire went with a more abrupt article called, “How to Talk Politics Over the Holidays Without Being a Dick.”
That story suggested that people text each other political messages, instead of doing it face to face over dinner or a football game. It also said people shouldn’t talk about politics while they’re drunk.
It had specific advice on how to talk about Trump and Clinton.
“Don’t go into this conversation assuming everyone who voted for Trump is a racist,” it said. “While you’re at it, maybe admit that Hillary Clinton was a flawed candidate.”
“Keep the conversation on specific facts: Point out that his tax plan, despite what he says, is built to provide more cuts to wealthy Americans,” it added.
It gave specific advice on other topic, such as how to talk about Trump’s senior adviser Steve Bannon, Black Lives Matter, the media, marriage equality and climate change.
Anyone needing more guidance can watch MSNBC’s 7-minute segment with Tamron Hall called, “Families grappling with politics at Thanksgiving table.”
