The Network of Enlightened Women recently named Jim Martinson and Grant Frazier the winners of its 2019 Gentlemen Showcase.
Martinson, a senior at the University of Notre Dame, told me in an interview, “The Gentlemen Showcase advocates for a society filled with men who treat women with the respect and dignity they deserve.”
Similarly, Frazier noted, “The Showcase, and NeW more generally, fight against the idea that traditionally championed notions of chivalry and gentlemanliness are bad things — erroneously termed ‘toxic masculinity.’ NeW’s supporters view gentlemanliness and masculinity as good things — sources for positive change and the furtherance of women’s rights and mutual respect among the sexes.”
“To me, a gentleman is an individual who promotes the dignity of women,” Martinson said, and Frazier echoed this sentiment.
Frazier, a law student at Arizona State University’s Sandra Day O’Connor College of Law, added: “A gentleman is a humble, hard-working, kind, respectful man who is steadfast in his beliefs and will stand up and do the right thing, even in the face of overwhelming adversity and unpopularity. A great litmus test for the character of a man is how he acts in unimportant, unenjoyable, or unexpected moments.”
“Perhaps most importantly, a gentleman treats everyone he encounters with respect and courtesy — from business superiors and potential clients to janitorial and waitstaff,” he concluded.
NeW has been recognizing exemplary gentlemen who lead the change for higher social standards for a number of years. The contest honors young men who display politeness, integrity, and respect on their campuses and in their communities.
“The Gentlemen Showcase gives America the opportunity to recognize young men across the country who possess a strong character. At a time when we are having a national discussion about how women are treated in the workplace and relationships, this contest adds an important element by showcasing men who respect women and demonstrate kindness to all. By praising gentlemen, we hope to inspire more of them,” said Karin Agness Lips, founder and president of NeW.
Martinson, who won the College Gentleman award, and Frazier, winner of the Under 30 Gentleman award, were nominated by friends and mentors. They each received $1,000 for a charity of their choice.
During this year’s Gentlemen Showcase, young men were nominated from schools across the country, such as American University, Harvard University, University of North Carolina, University of Notre Dame, University of Virginia, and Patrick Henry College.
Kate Hardiman is a contributor to Red Alert Politics. She is pursuing a master’s in education from Notre Dame University and teaches English and religion at a high school in Chicago.
