A few years ago, I had the chance to share dinner with a former prime minister from an Eastern European nation. Throughout the evening, he recounted his achievements and frequently mentioned the prominent politicians he encountered. As a staunch socialist — something he made abundantly clear— I was surprised when he revealed that the most valuable political lesson he ever received came from none other than the late British prime minister, Margaret Thatcher.
He recalled how, as a young politician, he joined a delegation to the United Kingdom, where they had a brief audience with the “Iron Lady.” True to his socialist convictions, he felt compelled to challenge Thatcher, criticizing her for what he perceived as a “lack of compassion.” Decades later, her response remained vivid in his memory: “Governing,” she told him, “is about commitment, not compassion.” These words, he said, profoundly shaped his approach to leadership and made him more effective in his role.