The Truth About Sexting

For parents concerned about the “sexting” phenomenon and wondering how much of it is media hype, the Pew Research Center has some answers. According to its Internet & American Life Project, a mere 4 percent of teens between 12 and 17 years of age say they have sent explicit photos of themselves while a larger number, 15 percent, say they have received such images. These numbers rise, however, corresponding with age: “Older teens are much more likely to send and receive these images; 8 percent of 17-year-olds with cell phones have sent a sexually provocative image by text and 30 percent have received a nude or nearly nude image on their phone.” This should come as a relief to many parents who have the impression that “everybody does it.” Of course this does depend on how many teens would honestly admit to a pollster that they engage in sexting. Because if we assume those interviewed were being truthful, and 30 percent receive such images while only 8 percent send them, well, those 8 percent must be pretty busy! As for why a teen would send such explicit images over a phone, Pew gives us three scenarios: “Exchanges of images solely between two romantic partners,” “Exchanges between partners that are then shared outside the relationship,” and “Exchanges between people who are not yet in a relationship, but where often one person hopes to be.” (But suppose they don’t like what they see?) In addition, there is this obvious note: “The teens who pay their own phone bills are more likely to send ‘sexts’: 17 percent of teens who pay for all of the costs associated with their cell phones send sexually suggestive images via text; just 3 percent of teens who do not pay for, or only pay for a portion of the cost of the cell phone send these images.” To parents with teens: Maybe it’s a good time to check that bill. And that phone.

Related Content