Pat Shelly is founder and director of the Breastfeeding Center for Greater Washington, a nonprofit clinic offering consultations, education and group support. Known as the “The Breast Whisperer,” Shelly started the center in 1997, now located at 2141 K St. NW.
What led to the creation of the center?
I began a home visit practice in the late ’80s to support breastfeeding women. After years working as a registered nurse, I repeatedly encountered new mothers leaving the hospital who felt unsure and misinformed when it came to breastfeeding.
Why is there a need for a breastfeeding center? Isn’t breastfeeding kind of natural? Yes, breastfeeding is natural, as is conception, pregnancy and the birth process. Yet, sometimes unexpected challenges occur. Many new mothers who expect breastfeeding to be easy, may feel stressed or caught off guard when common and manageable problems arise. Early education, prior to birth, and solid support from a board certified lactation consultant after your baby is born are the best ways to avoid confusion, resolve issues, and reduce the possibility of stress for a new mother. The goal is to reduce confusion during a very emotional time in a new mother’s life.
Are women more nervous now about breastfeeding than a generation or two ago? Maybe, but also more determined. More women are appreciating the benefits of biological feeding, yet aware that there is a great deal of misinformation and confusion when we try to treat breastfeeding like bottle feeding. We are relearning our lost tradition after generations of formula feeding.
Are men less squeamish about it than they used to be? Overall yes, as today’s partner is much more involved in the birth process, it carries over to support for the new mother. A woman who feels family support and appreciation during the early weeks has more energy to establish breastfeeding bond with the baby.
