It is said that when jazz legend Charlie “Bird” Parker died, the coroner guessed he was in his 50s. Parker was, in fact, 34 years old. Likewise, many of us might have been surprised to learn that actor James Gandolfini, who died suddenly on Wednesday night, was a mere 51. This means that when The Sopranos first aired in 1999, Gandolfini was only 37 or 38 years old. Of course it was alcohol that led to Parker’s downfall. For all I know, Gandolfini’s apparent heart attack (an autopsy is scheduled) happened because the man was a hulking figure who enjoyed life—he was in Rome at the time with his 13-year-old son on his way to the Taormina Film Festival in Sicily (he suffered the heart attack in the bathroom of his suite at the five-star hotel Exedra).

Did Gandolfini ever look young on screen? He was 31 when he did the Quentin Tarantino-scripted True Romance. And he was 33 in Crimson Tide. I would have guessed he was in his mid to late 40s by the time he agreed to star in David Chase’s HBO series, The Sopranos. In terms of his overall presence, his size was a blessing and, as it turns out, a curse.