George H.W. Bush’s funeral invitation to Trump completes his legacy of noble civility

In life, former President George H.W. Bush exemplified the type of dignified conservatism that is sorely lacking at the moment. His passing marks not only the earthly end of a great man, but the closing of a chapter that is not likely to repeat any time in the near future.

Although imperfect in his political dealings, as all presidents are, Bush 41 was known as one of the most genuine players on the public stage. During a time when cruelty is often applauded and mistaken for strength, the kind and respectful behavior of this former president stands alone.

The past two years have been marked by many political feuds, and the contention between the 45th president and the Bush family is apparent. President Trump has ridiculed both Bush Sr. and his son, President George W. Bush, along with his fellow candidate on the 2016 campaign trail, Jeb Bush.

At the news of his passing, the administration issued a fitting tribute in response. It was appropriate in length and tone.

But more telling than how Trump has reacted to this political dynasty in life and death is the choice made by George H.W. Bush to invite Trump to his funeral. While this seems like an extra measure of goodwill given the bitterness that has dotted the recent Bush-Trump relationship, it is not the least bit surprising to those who knew the former president.

…Many of the family’s confidants said Saturday former President George H.W. Bush wished to put that all aside when it came to Trump attending his funeral. “If anybody at anytime knew anything about the 41st president of the United States, they would completely and totally understand that he would welcome the current occupant 100 percent,” said an aide in the office of the former president. “This is the way the country says goodbye to presidents.”


George H.W. Bush considered the presidency to be higher than any one individual. Rather than a person, it is the people’s office and should, at all times, be given the honor and respect it is due. He carried this mindset during previous administrations, too.

In 2014, Bush Sr. greeted President Barack Obama on the tarmac in Houston when he came to visit. As reported, Bush said, “When the president comes to your hometown, you show up and welcome him.” Even more gracious than that was the note he left President Bill Clinton on inauguration day in 1993. Bush had lost to the young, charismatic Democrat, but there was no indication of bitterness in his letter to the new leader.

“You will be our President when you read this note. I wish you well. I wish your family well. Your success now is our country’s success. I am rooting hard for you.”


In sharp contrast to the “not my president” mantra of the current left-leaning Resistance, George H.W. Bush considered each commander-in-chief to be “our president.” By choosing to invite the current president (one who has mocked him in the past) to his funeral, Bush displayed a consistency that was a hallmark of his extraordinary life. His devotion to country, despite personal differences, served as a guide through the political mire.

I am sure there are those who wish Trump would be excluded from any memorials for George H.W. Bush. Perhaps this disappoints ones who, in the wake of the late Sen. John McCain’s funeral decision, almost hoped for such public embarrassments to become a trend. If so, their frustration is a good thing.

Maybe one day the country will be in a place where discourse from the president and the people is full of courtesy rather than conflict. To his credit, George H.W. Bush’s time in office was marked by a civility that we currently lack.

By including Trump at his upcoming funeral, this legacy is complete.

Kimberly Ross (@SouthernKeeks) is a contributor to the Washington Examiner’s Beltway Confidential blog and a senior contributor at RedState.com.

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