The first indication you’re talking to a married member of the modern generation is when the wife or husband says, “We’re pregnant.” No husband, in the history of time, has ever been pregnant, because men do not get pregnant. But to the modern generation (those who are younger than, say, 40), there are no distinctions between the sexes. Men and women are one and the same.

This mindset, this bogus philosophy about sexual sameness, permeates their relationships and undermines their ability to be successfully married. It’s the reason that five to ten years after they’ve said “I do,” (if it even takes that long) they call me for coaching. It appears the women, in particular, have done everything wrong when it comes to men and marriage. Why? Because they were steered wrong by the previous generation, and now they’re paying the price.