Leading up to Tuesday’s election, the presidential campaigns have been visibly courting the bro vote, with former President Donald Trump appearing on prankster podcasts and Vice President Kamala Harris, well, sending former President Barack Obama out to call black men sexist.

And while this flirtation might be the hot new thing, the long-standing courtship lies with women. (You can buy all sorts of “Women for Trump” gear but nada for the bros.) Harris likely assumes women are in the bag, but Trump is making a concerted effort to appeal to women, including hosting an all-female town hall last month. And Trump needs to win over women. Ten million more women than men voted during the 2020 presidential race. Forget those millions, forget about being president.