I’m a Republican who made Democrat friends at Trump’s inauguration

I had the opportunity to attend the inauguration of Donald Trump. I’d never witnessed the swearing-in of a president of the United States, so I was really excited to be able to be an eyewitness at such a monumental occasion. I even arrived at the checkpoint gate at around 5:30 a.m. to make sure I had a good spot. I was able to watch a breathtaking sunrise light up the sky behind the Capitol of the United States, where in just hours Trump would take the oath of office.

My friends and I passed the time by people-watching, playing phone games, and trying to stay warm between alternating spurts of light rain.

While the ceremony was going on, I had an unexpected encounter which I posted about to Facebook

This is Thalia and Caroline, two friends I made at Trump’s inauguration. They are Democrats and voted for Hillary. When then still President Obama walked out to take his seat for the inauguration ceremony the majority of the crowd boo’d him. I happened to glance over and notice these young ladies getting visibly emotional at seeing him in the closing minutes of his Presidency. Some male Trump supporters noticed as well, and began mocking the girls, making fun of them for crying about Obama leaving office.

While I disagree fundamentally with nearly everything Obama has implemented policy-wise, it made me angry to see grown men giving these girls a hard time. They were not protesting or making a scene, just quietly and respectfully observing the ceremonies.

After the closing prayers I felt compelled to approach these girls and introduce myself. I asked their names, explained that I was a Republican, and then apologized for the way my fellow Republicans had mocked at their obvious distress in seeing “their guy” leaving office. I thanked them for being brave enough to come knowing that they would be surrounded by thousands of people of opposing opinions; but I also asked them to please not judge all Republicans by the actions of a few grown men who evidently have a lot of growing up to do still. Thalia and Caroline thanked me for my apology, and said it meant a lot to them. After our brief conversation, we hugged and I asked to snap a quick pic with them because I wanted to share this experience – and I hope you’ll share this story too – because it’s a message many need to hear.

In parting, I told Thalia and Caroline I hoped President Trump wouldn’t turn out to be such a bad president in their eyes upon the conclusion of his term. They responded that they will hope for the best, and give him a chance. I am optimistic about Trump’s presidency at this point, but I do know one thing. We won’t “#MakeAmericaGreatAgain” by being bullies. We’re better than that, #GOP. It’s more than time we came together as Americans and started working towards unity, not division. Peace, not strife. Love, not hate. #inauguration2017 #MAGA


It is dismaying to me how many Republicans and Democrats treat each other on the basis of their opposing views. I’m not just a Republican. I am also a Christian, and the Bible teaches us to love those around us and treat them the way we want others to treat us. I think we would all be better off if we treated each other with the inherent dignity and respect due to each human being.

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