Think millennials are entitled? Read “Meternity”

38-year-old Meghann Foye was lucky enough to get Meternity published, and the biggest take away may be a selfish sense of entitlement while contributing nothing to the debate on paid family leave.

Foye’s work of fiction is about a young woman who fakes a pregnancy to get maternity leave. But, it’s based on her decision to take her own kind of maternity leave, despite not having any children, as she shared with The New York Post.

As Foye reflects:

For women who follow a “traditional” path, this pause often naturally comes in your late 20s or early 30s, when a wedding, pregnancy and babies means that your personal life takes center stage. But for those who end up on the “other” path, that socially mandated time and space for self-reflection may never come.

That time may never come even for women who are pregnant. The United States is one of few nations which do not offer federally guaranteed paid maternity leave. Foye’s character was lucky to work for a company that offered it.

The oddity continues:

It seemed that parenthood was the only path that provided a modicum of flexibility. There’s something about saying “I need to go pick up my child” as a reason to leave the office on time that has far more gravitas than, say, “My best friend just got ghosted by her OkCupid date and needs a margarita” — but both sides are valid.

Both arguments may be “valid” to Foye, but are likely not to many employers. And, it may seem “that parenthood was the only path that provided a modicum of flexibility” because Foye does not have children.

To Foye, women ought to take “meternity” leave because they may suffer from burn-outs while having the good fortune of being employed:

Burnout syndrome is well-documented in both sexes, but recent research suggests that women may experience it at greater rates; researchers postulate that it’s because women (moms and non-moms alike) feel overloaded by the roles they have to take on at work and at home.

The issue of paid family leave is a complex one, with thoughtful arguments on both sides. And yet, Foye has to take the discussion a step back by contributing nothing. Perhaps it’s not millennials who are the entitled generation — Gen-X has their own bad apples.

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