In case there’s anyone left on Earth who didn’t get the memo, Nicole Kidman would like us all to know that she was sad when Tom Cruise divorced her and is now happy to be married to Keith Urban. In other breaking news: She’s pale and skinny.

During the 10 years she was wed to the “Mission: Impossible” megastar, Nic confesses to Glamour, she “felt I became a star only by association. I didn’t think [the early movies] were very good, which is why I would always cower in the background. I thought, ‘I don’t deserve to be here.’ We would go to the Oscars and I would think, ‘I’m here to support him.’ I felt it was my job to put on a beautiful dress and be seen and not heard.”