Surprised that Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher have lasted for the long haul? So are they.

“If somebody would have said … ‘You’re going to meet a man 25 years old and he’s going to see being with you and having your three kids as a bonus,’ I would have said, ‘Keep dreaming,’” Demi admits in the February issue of Vanity Fair about falling for her husband of more than a year. “I think it caught us both by surprise, and particularly him. He was in this real rise of his career just as we met, which for a young man is prime opportunity for heavy-duty play.”