The latest Harvey Weinstein news, about one of his rape accusers telling him she loves him, should make all of us pause. Weinstein may be a womanizer of incredibly low character, but the last time I checked, this is still America — a place where no one can be convicted of a crime he or she didn’t commit and be subsequently thrown in jail. Or at least that’s the goal.

The most important takeaway from this new revelation is that uncommitted sex is rarely black and white. More often than not, it’s hopelessly gray.