Where are all the gay weddings we were promised? Here we are two years after Obergefell, the case in which the Supreme Court imposed same-sex marriage on all 50 states, without restriction. At the time, we were told gays wanted nothing more than to be able to marry each other, just like their straight friends and neighbors. And yet, the needle on gay marriage has hardly moved.

According to a new Gallup poll, only 10.2 percent of gays are in same-sex marriages — a tiny bump up from the 7.9 percent who were in gay marriages before Obergefell, despite the addition of 14 new states where they became legal.